January 31, 2012

Cute Babies in Animal Hats.

You’re welcome ;)

Love,

M

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December 6, 2011
Jumping Another Hurdle.
Tomorrow, we will take Arlo to Duke Children’s Hospital in Durham where he will undergo a urology-based surgery. It’s something that I hoped we wouldn’t have to do, but our last appointment with his Urologist confirmed that it was necessary.  Sometimes blessings come disguised as the oddest things - and for me, the small silver lining to the amount of stress I’ve been under lately has been that it has filled my head with so many things that I’ve had very little time to obsess about all the details and what-ifs of this surgery for my sweet boy.
But now the time has come to focus all of my energy on supporting Arlo through his first procedure and I am pulling out my bravest face. This is the hardest part of parenting. When you want to be scared and allow yourself to be enveloped in the vulnerability of loving another person so much - but that same love forces you to buck up, pull out your courage reserves and stay present and focused so that you can care for your child as best as possible.
I teeter between thoughts about how young he is, how scary it will be to have him put under anethesia, worrying that he will be afraid when he is away from us- surrounded by doctors and nurses he doesn’t know and so worried about the pain that he will feel as he recovers. On the other side of that spectrum, I am encouraged by how many children undergo successful operations at even younger ages . I know he has the best team of doctors and caregivers possible and most of all, I know that God is watching over him and will be there with him when I can not be.
I know I’m being intentionally vague about his procedure(s) but trust me when I tell you that I am so ready to check this off Arlo’s list. I look forward to getting these things behind us so that we can focus on raising up this beautiful boy to be healthy and happy. I keep reminding myself that he won’t even remember any of this once he is older.
We will be in the hospital from Wednesday morning through Thursday as they are doing some additional monitoring of his heart post-op.  We should have internet access and I will do my best to provide an update afterwards/
If I could request a favor, dear readers. Please pray for my sweet Arlo. Pray that his surgery is quick and successful. Pray that his body reacts appropriately to the anesthesia and that his recovery is fast and his pain is minimal.  Ask God to watch over him and guide the hands of the surgeon and the medical care team to do their very best.
Thank you so much.
Love,
M

Jumping Another Hurdle.

Tomorrow, we will take Arlo to Duke Children’s Hospital in Durham where he will undergo a urology-based surgery. It’s something that I hoped we wouldn’t have to do, but our last appointment with his Urologist confirmed that it was necessary.  Sometimes blessings come disguised as the oddest things - and for me, the small silver lining to the amount of stress I’ve been under lately has been that it has filled my head with so many things that I’ve had very little time to obsess about all the details and what-ifs of this surgery for my sweet boy.

But now the time has come to focus all of my energy on supporting Arlo through his first procedure and I am pulling out my bravest face. This is the hardest part of parenting. When you want to be scared and allow yourself to be enveloped in the vulnerability of loving another person so much - but that same love forces you to buck up, pull out your courage reserves and stay present and focused so that you can care for your child as best as possible.

I teeter between thoughts about how young he is, how scary it will be to have him put under anethesia, worrying that he will be afraid when he is away from us- surrounded by doctors and nurses he doesn’t know and so worried about the pain that he will feel as he recovers. On the other side of that spectrum, I am encouraged by how many children undergo successful operations at even younger ages . I know he has the best team of doctors and caregivers possible and most of all, I know that God is watching over him and will be there with him when I can not be.

I know I’m being intentionally vague about his procedure(s) but trust me when I tell you that I am so ready to check this off Arlo’s list. I look forward to getting these things behind us so that we can focus on raising up this beautiful boy to be healthy and happy. I keep reminding myself that he won’t even remember any of this once he is older.

We will be in the hospital from Wednesday morning through Thursday as they are doing some additional monitoring of his heart post-op.  We should have internet access and I will do my best to provide an update afterwards/

If I could request a favor, dear readers. Please pray for my sweet Arlo. Pray that his surgery is quick and successful. Pray that his body reacts appropriately to the anesthesia and that his recovery is fast and his pain is minimal.  Ask God to watch over him and guide the hands of the surgeon and the medical care team to do their very best.

Thank you so much.

Love,

M

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October 3, 2011

The Rundown. 4 months & 20 Months

(Sorry my kids are in the same outfits for the past 4 posts - I took a lot of photos last Thursday!)

Stats:

Everly: 22lbs 8 ounces - you are such a peanut my dear! Your tiny little feet are in a size 4 but I’ve started buying all of your winter shoes in size 5 as I suspect they are finally growing.

Arlo: 15lbs 8 ounces - You are right on track sweet man! Sitting right at 50% on the growth chart except for that noggin which is in the 75% (big like your daddy’s!). You are already wearing some 6-9 month clothing too.

Teeth:

Everly: We took you to the dentist a few months back and you had a fit! You screamed the entire time and we had to hold you down for a minute so the Dr. could look in your mouth (sorry about that kiddo). Afterwards he said “She did great!” and we were like “She did?!?” and he assured us that almost every toddler reacts with such dramatics at having their teeth examined. Your 2 year molars are on their way in (1 is already through) and as usual, you are handling teething like a champ.

Arlo: Your little gums are swollen and we can feel the two little mounds where your first two bottom teeth are beginning to push through your gums. You are a drool monster and are constantly trying to chew your fingers off in an attempt to relieve your gums. So far, you’ve handled teething pretty well!

Feeding:

Everly: You recently decided you are much to grown to sit in your high chair anymore and insist on sitting in a booster seat at the dining table. You know how to use a spoon and fork (you call them both a “moon”) but you still like to dig in with your hands if the process of eating takes too long. You love all different kinds of foods although your favorites right now are Morningstar soy sausage patties, Trader Joe’s fish sticks, strawberries, green peas, and as always - macaroni and cheese.  We’ve had a harder time getting you to eat your green veggies lately, so we start off each morning with a big cup of “green juice” that has kale, spinach, and green algea mixed with lots of fruit juices.

Arlo: All breastmilk for you little buddy! I’ve been doing some research and have decided that we will not be introducing any kinds of solids until you are older than six months (maybe even 7 or 8 months, we’ll see how it goes). Since you already have a sensitivity to dairy (in my diet) and we have some indication that you might have some other allergies, we’re going the “virgin gut” route (read more here and here.)

Talking:

Everly: OH MY WORD! You are quite the little chatter box and are putting two and three word sentences together.  Just the other day, you hugged Arlo and buried your face in his shirt right where he had recently spitup then you said “Ewwww, Arlo dirty” and I could not stop laughing. You are starting to repeat a lot of words back to us and remember a lot of people’s names. When you wake up from your nap and are ready to get out, you like to say “OH NO!” in a very dramatic voice until someone comes to get you and when you and daddy are playing and being silly, you will wrap your arms around his neck and say “Oh daddy!” in the sweetest, most adoring way.

Arlo: You are starting to use your voice for entertainment. A lot of coos and repetitive sounds. You also like to talk to your play gym and your hands a lot.

Awesome Stuff you are doing:

Everly: You are incredibly affectionate and love to give us big hugs and kisses. I LOVE this stage in your development as you are becoming such a little girl. You have a serious love for playing dress up and have figured out how to put on larger pieces of clothing by yourself. Sometimes you will sneak off in my room and come out with one of my tank top on and your daddy’s hat. You also like to stand in my shoes and try to walk. You love to hide inside closets and will stand quietly in the dark in anticipation of one of us opening the door to find you - then you squeal with delight and take off running. You are CRAZY about books and love to point out all of the different people and things in the pictures. You are learning to count to 10 (you have 1-5 down but sometimes get the higher numbers mixed up) and you are getting pretty good at pointing to stuff that is yellow, red and blue. You also are starting to play pretend a lot- feeding and rocking your babies to sleep and playing guitar (with a pick even!) and singing into a microphone. Dancing is still your favorite thing ever and now you can put combinations of moves together when I call them out - like “Wave your hands in there, get down low, shake your booty, stomp your feet”.Oh! One last thing, you are starting to really indicate they you are ready to start potty training. You have started to tell us when you need to “boop boop” (you made that word up yourself!) and last week you took your diaper off, walked into the living room, climbed into a plastic bucket and said “pee pee” while peeing in the bucket! Next stop on the Everly train- big girl undies!


Arlo: You’ve been rolling over for some time now (your first time was at 6 weeks old, although you stopped for a bit after that) and you are such an inch worm that you can wiggle yourself clear across the floor in about 20 minutes time. Everyone comments on how strong you are. You can stand up for long periods of time with just a tiny bit of support under your arms and you have started pulling yourself up into a sitting position when I give you my hands for leverage. You have an insane grip and it sometimes takes serious effort to peel your little fingers off from around objects (or unwrap fistfuls of my hair from your fingers!). I was told to expect that a lot of your visually linked milestones could be delayed by 3-4 months, but you have hit every.single.one right on track (my heart BURSTS with pride over this Arlo!) You react to your reflection in a mirror, grab at toys that dangle from your play gym, and last week you discovered your feet and now hold on to them for dear life! You are already teaching me to never (for even a single second) underestimate you. You are quickly getting a reputation for being “the happiest baby ever” as you dole out huge (I mean gigantic!!) smiles left and right and let out bellowing belly chuckles that make everyone else laugh too. You laugh all the time, at everything and the joy your spread around is so infectious.

My darling children, you have changed the path of my life is the most wonderful way. Being your mother is the greatest thing I have ever known. To watch you grow and develop into two unique, individual little people is a daily gift. So often daddy and I will just stop what we are doing and say to one another “Aren’t they incredible? Can you believe WE made them?” I can’t imagine this awe ever wearing off.

Love,

Mama

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February 15, 2011
Pregnancy check-in.
I’ll be 28 weeks tomorrow.
This pregnancy has been easier than Everly’s was - which is saying a lot because I had it pretty good with her too. Other than some sciatica early in the second trimester, I’ve felt really great from the start and have had very few annoying pregnancy symptoms.  I also feel Arlo move a lot more than I did Everly. I think that is probably due to the fact that I had an anterior placenta placement with her which muffled a lot of her movements. This little boy is such a mover!
So far I’ve gained 15 pounds, which is exactly where all of the charts tell me I should be as far as weight gain. I’m bound and determined not to pack on the pounds like I did with EV, but I’ve also come to accept that I’m not one of those women that stays completely the same except for a little basketball belly. Oh no - not me. I get pregnancy face and pregnancy boobs and pregnancy thighs and pregnancy arms and that’s just the way my body grows babies.
Next week I have my first appointment with my new midwife practice at the Women’s Birth & Wellness Center in Chapel Hill. I decided  to have all of my early pregnancy appointments at a Raleigh based OBGYN practice because of the drive involved in going to the birth center. My experience at the OBGYN was completely disheartening - I plan to write a post on our natural birth plans soon - but all I can say is that I’m REALLY excited to be back in the care of midwives. In the meantime,  I’m dusting off my hypnobabies books and preparing myself mentally for all that’s involved in going natural again.  It feels like I’m about to start spring training for the big game.
All in all, I’m just feeling incredibly lucky at how easy this little boy has been on his mama. My third trimester is just beginning but I’ve got my fingers crossed that this positive pregnancy mojo keeps up!
Love,
M

Pregnancy check-in.

I’ll be 28 weeks tomorrow.

This pregnancy has been easier than Everly’s was - which is saying a lot because I had it pretty good with her too. Other than some sciatica early in the second trimester, I’ve felt really great from the start and have had very few annoying pregnancy symptoms.  I also feel Arlo move a lot more than I did Everly. I think that is probably due to the fact that I had an anterior placenta placement with her which muffled a lot of her movements. This little boy is such a mover!

So far I’ve gained 15 pounds, which is exactly where all of the charts tell me I should be as far as weight gain. I’m bound and determined not to pack on the pounds like I did with EV, but I’ve also come to accept that I’m not one of those women that stays completely the same except for a little basketball belly. Oh no - not me. I get pregnancy face and pregnancy boobs and pregnancy thighs and pregnancy arms and that’s just the way my body grows babies.

Next week I have my first appointment with my new midwife practice at the Women’s Birth & Wellness Center in Chapel Hill. I decided  to have all of my early pregnancy appointments at a Raleigh based OBGYN practice because of the drive involved in going to the birth center. My experience at the OBGYN was completely disheartening - I plan to write a post on our natural birth plans soon - but all I can say is that I’m REALLY excited to be back in the care of midwives. In the meantime,  I’m dusting off my hypnobabies books and preparing myself mentally for all that’s involved in going natural again.  It feels like I’m about to start spring training for the big game.

All in all, I’m just feeling incredibly lucky at how easy this little boy has been on his mama. My third trimester is just beginning but I’ve got my fingers crossed that this positive pregnancy mojo keeps up!

Love,

M

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Hello. I'm Melissa.

Wife to a rock n roll, super dad named Brent.

We're the adventuring type. Go. do. See.
We hit the jackpot when we had our daughter, Everly Veda in January 2010.
She has my eyes, his lips and a San Francisco heart.

In May 2011, we welcomed Arlo Redding, the most magical little dude ever into our family. His presence has made our good thing, even better.

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